Tips for making mom friends

 So building off of last week's post here are some tips for making friends as a mom.

How to Make Mom Friends: A Few Tips

If you’re in a similar boat, you’re not alone. Many of us find ourselves navigating this strange, isolated phase of life and wondering how to connect with others. Here are a few tips that might help you find your tribe:

Join Mom Groups or Playdate Circles: Whether through Facebook, local community centers, or parenting apps, there are often groups of moms looking to connect. It might feel awkward at first, but many moms are in the same boat and are hoping to make new friends too. You could start by attending playdates, local meet-ups, or even online events to break the ice.

Be Open to Different Stages of Life: It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that only other young moms will understand your struggles. But sometimes, older moms or even women without kids can offer fresh perspectives. Friendships don’t always have to be age-matched, and you never know who might surprise you.

Invite People First: If you’ve met someone who seems like they could be a friend, take the first step. Invite them for coffee, to the park, or to a local event. Sometimes people are just waiting for someone else to make the first move, and it’s hard to form a connection without that little push.

Embrace the Messy: Parenting is chaotic, and your life doesn’t have to be perfect for you to make meaningful friendships. If your house is messy or your kids are a little wild, embrace it. The best friendships are often formed when we drop the pretenses and just show up as we are.

Get Creative with Plans: A lunch date may be difficult, but maybe you can invite a fellow mom to join you for a stroller walk or a quick coffee run. It’s about finding the little moments where you can connect, even if it’s just for a short time.

Take Advantage of Technology: If physical meetups are difficult, don’t underestimate the power of group chats or virtual hangouts. A quick Zoom playdate or a late-night chat can help you stay connected with potential friends even when life is busy.

Be Patient with Yourself: Lastly, give yourself grace. Making lasting friendships takes time, especially when you're a mom with so many other things on your plate. It’s okay if you don’t have a full social calendar right now. The right friends will come along when the time is right.

Friendship can be a tricky thing to navigate, especially when life circumstances shift in ways we didn’t expect. But remember that even though it might take some effort to find your people, they’re out there. You’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to ask for help in making those connections. Whether it’s a fellow mom, an older friend who’s “been there,” or someone you least expect, there’s always room for new bonds to be formed.

So, fellow moms and friends-in-the-making: how do you find and maintain your friendships? What tips do you have for connecting with others in this crazy seas I'mon of life?

Philippians 2:4 ESV

[4] Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.